Tulsa Time
May 19, 2006
WOW - What a trip - In the span of 43 hours just about every emotion you can imagine crossed my path. Grap your favorite drink, kick back, and get ready for the ride of my life!
To give you some background, I really hadn't plan on going to this show. But, on the day the tickets went on sale, my sweetheart of a friend, LouAnn, calls me at work and asks how I did on the sale for tickets. I informed her I wasn't planning on going. Well, she saids "I have an extra front row ticket - Can I change your mind?" Well, enough said - I'm going to Tulsa!! Little did I know what would happen that day.....
I should have gotten a hint of things to come when I got an email from LouAnn telling me they had cancelled her flight and rebooked her. So, instead of her coming in 1 hour before me, she was now coming in 1/2 hour after me. No problem....so I thought.
Went to bed early the night before, had a little trouble falling asleep. Decided it wasn't worth it trying to sleep, so I would just get up and head out for Washington, DC - National Airport - to make my flight. Just then, I fell asleep. The alarm went off at 3:00 a.m. (Had a 7:00 a.m. flight and a 2 hour drive to D.C.) Turned the alarm OFF in my sleep!! Never heard it!! Woke up at 5:18 a.m. OH NO!!!!!! With a 2 hour drive, there's no way to make it!! Grabbed the cell phone and called LouAnn and gave her the bad news. I grabbed my clothes and headed out the door.
Halfway to D.C., the phone rings. LouAnn had just found out her rebooked flight had been cancelled, her original flight reinstated, but the airline had cancelled her reservation. So the airline was trying to find her another flight - and I've missed my flight, so this is not looking good.
About 30 miles from D.C., I hit the rush hour traffic going into D.C. and 4 lanes of traffic just stopped! So, I made the decision to dump off in Springfield, Va and catch the Metro train to National Airport. Of course, my Metro card didn't have enough credit to ride the train, and the stupid machines you use to add money wasn't taking credit cards! So, here I am, missing my flight, trying to catch the train, and digging for money.
I finally get enough on the card to ride the train. Got to National but went to the wrong terminal. So I had to take a bus to Terminal A (I was in Terminal C). Finally made the ticket counter about 7:40 a.m. Explained my situation and then the fun began. Almost every flight was sold-out and I could only go on standby. The rep suggested I contact the reservation center and maybe I could get credit with another airline. So, I did as I was told, and the reservation center started throwing all kinds of flights and times at me - finally they named a flight that would get me in before the show - GREAT - book that one. Then, the rep calming said "OK - Got you confirmed - that will be $1,200.00 - do you want to pay by credit card?" Well, after I picked up the phone from the ground (and myself too!) I explained there was no way I could or would pay that kind of money for a ticket. So, she suggested I go back to the counter and go on standby. I went back to the ticket counter and stood in line again. One by one, my case was being handed off to another employee and very soon all 4 reps were helping people who were in line behind me. I started to complain, but just then, another couple who had missed their flight, began yelling and screaming and causing a scene. I decided to just stay quite and wait until someone got around to helping me.
Eventually, the NWA Supervisor came over to help me. The news was not good. They could get me on a flight that left at 5:15 p.m. and arrived in Tulsa 8:50 p.m. I couldn’t help it, but tears started running down my cheeks. I explained I was attending a show that started at 8:00 p.m. I had GREAT seats and people waiting on me at the hotel. I told him about the 12:10 flight and that reservations said I should get on the standby list. So, he clicked around in the computer for about 10 minutes, and I wondered why it was taking so long to get standby. Finally, he looked up and said, “OK, I have you confirmed on the 12:10 flight” WHAT???? Decided again to keep my mouth shut. Then, he looked at me and said, “Do you know how much money I just saved you? $1200.00!!! My knees went weak…but he handed me a ticket and directed me to the gate!! I find out that because my original flight was routed through Memphis and the only flight they could find was through Minneapolis, that is what caused the $1200.00 fee. By then, LouAnn had called from Minneapolis and she was being routed through Denver. So between the two of us, we covered about 2/3 of the U.S. trying to get to Tulsa.
The flight from D.C. to Minneapolis was interesting; this very nice but clinging older gentleman started talking to me and followed me around the airport like a lost puppy dog. I had to keep waking him up so he wouldn’t miss the flight. I finally got into Minneapolis – LouAnn had already left for Denver. The plane was a little late getting in and I just made my flight to Tulsa. We got into Tulsa 30 minutes early, which was great because I could catch the shuttle that came at 5:00. No such luck. We sat out on the runway for 30 minutes because there was another plane at our gate. We finally got off the plane at 5:15 p.m. I ran to baggage claim and called the hotel. God bless them, they were waiting for me!!! I had gone 7 hours without a cigarette and now I had to wait 15 minutes more.
Downtown Tulsa was a driving nightmare. Some the streets were closed due to construction and many more were closed due to Mayfest – a city street festival. But we finally made it to the hotel and I literally ran into the hotel room straight for the shower. Within an hour, I was ready to go…. a new Styx Road Trip record. LouAnn and I met up with JenRN and Debbie and then it was off to the show we go!
The Brady Theater is rather old and not quite as nice as the website shows, but we were thrill when we got in and found our seats only 2 feet from the stage and the stage hit us about mid-tummy! We ran into several Styx Lounge members and it was good to finally put faces with names. We talked to some people on the cell phones and they were watching us from the Styx Crew web-cam. Pretty soon, the intro music came on and there came da boyz!!!! I completely forgot about all the trouble getting there! From the moment the lights went down, everyone in the Brady Theater got to their feet and I didn’t see a soul sit down the entire show. The boyz caught the audience vibe, and they were on fire!!!
Here is the set list for Friday night at Tulsa:
Blue Collar Man
Grand Illusion Lorelei
One With Everything
Lady
Too Much Time On My Hands
Snowblind
Walrus
Medley
Just Be (New Song)
Crystal Ball
Fooling Yourself
Miss America
Come Sail Away
Doctor
Renegade
Tommy couldn’t remember how many songs were in the medley. Then we found out why. Styx has changed up the Medley again and they have removed several songs. It appears that the songs that had been cut were Dennis’ songs – I asked someone about it but really didn’t get an answer.
There was one moment in the show where Tommy introduced the new song “Just Be” He began talking about how caught up we are in our busy lives and how computers and ipods and Tivo has taken over and no one has the time to “Just Be” themselves and do simple things like taking walks and fishing. Then suddenly, he explained how his father took him fishing when we was younger and Tommy said he would give up all his computers, Tivo and everything just to go fishing with his father one more time! That statement hit me like a ton of bricks. I used to fish with my parents ever since I was born. My dad passed away 13 years ago and I had never even thought about the fact that we could never go fishing together again. And the tears started – I couldn’t help it. Lawrence saw me and asked if I was OK? No, I shook my head and the tears really fell. I mouthed I couldn’t fish with my father either and it really looked like it touched his heart!! They were going to debut this song in Cleveland, but they couldn’t wait. JenRN was lucky enough to get the words off the stage and was nice enough to share them with me!
“Just Be”
Did you make your bed?
Did you lose your head?
Are you still awake
From the things we said…
You close your eyes
But the sleep won’t come
‘Cause you can’t escape
What’s said and done
Did you draw the line
In the sand again
Did you make a stand
Out on a limb
Don’t be so hard on yourself…….

You drink too much
‘Cause you think too much
It seems so hard to feel
All this is real
You numb your heart
So you feel no pain’
Then you miss the bliss
of the pouring rain.
But there’s a brand new day
It’s a shame to waste
It’s yours to live
It’s yours to taste......
It’s a beautiful song, and I could just hear the CYO Orchestra performing with Styx on that song. I can’t wait for the Blossom show on May 25th, 2006
The funniest part of the evening was that Ricky spent half the concert trying to get a pick to me that I could actually catch!! He tried throwing one, tossing me, kicking a few off his heel but I could never actually caught one. He finally motioned for everyone around me to be still. He pointed at me - showed me the pick – adjusted – and kicked a perfect hit off his heel – and I MISSED IT!!! He was done!! I tried to tell him I had a blind spot in my eye and I wear glasses to see anything up close. Finally at some point in the evening, he walked over, grabbed my hand and put a pick in it and closed my fingers up. Guess he figured that was the only way I could “catch” one!! During “Come Sail Away” Tommy came over by me and handed the girl beside me a pick to play his guitar – She didn't know what to do with it! Then, Tommy handed me a pick, and said “Show them how it’s done!” NO PROBLEM – In a few seconds everyone had it down and we were strumming Tommy’s guitar. Can’t believe the strings didn’t break!! Here is a picture from Styx Crew Cam of me playing Tommy's guitar - it's hard to see but it's ME!

Well, like all great Styx shows, before we knew it, they were playing Renegade. I got a Ricky and Tommy pick and Ricky’s set list, LouAnn got Tommy’s slide, and JenRN got the words to “Just Be”. We hung around the buses for a while and talked to the crew. Eventually, Lawrence, Todd, and Ricky came out for a few moments. I even got a hug from Lawrence!! Finally, hunger took over, so we asked directions to get to some eating-places. Well, the directions were bad, we couldn’t find the highway, and so we doubled back and found ourselves following the band bus. OK – they can lead us to the interstate. Well, we kept taking wrong turns and so did they. First, we were behind them, then in front of them, then passing each other in the opposite direction – it got really funny. We never found the place we were looking for but spied a Denny’s and ordered half the menu. I left all my money in the hotel room trying to hurry and get ready. So I offered to buy breakfast the next morning anyone willing to pay my bill. Thank goodness for friends. The waiter at Denny’s wanted to come along and join us! We actually did manage to find our way back to the hotel and everyone crashed around 3-4 a.m.
Next morning I woke up early and so everyone was still asleep, I walked around the city a little bit and then I remembered tickets were going on sale that day at 10:00 for York, Pa. show. I hurried back to the hotel and found the business center. Just as I was going on the Internet, my cell phone rings. I thought it was my roommate – but it was my friend Pattie wanting to know what ticket I got for York. Well, nothing yet, the tickets haven’t gone on sale. She started laughing – I completely forgot I was in the central time zone, so 9:45 was actually 10:45 eastern time and I had missed the beginning of the sale. But, thank goodness for friends who watch your back, she had a ticket for me on the Lawrence’s side. So all’s well! Finally all 4 of us went downstairs and had breakfast – we were having a great time talking and catching up, when I happened to look at my watch – it was 11:55 and checkout was at 12 noon. LouAnn’s flight was at 2:20 and my flight at 4:27. We had to scurry and get to the airport but everyone made their flight and got home safely. Here’s to number 109 Styx Road adventure for the record books and the memory books.
Well, next adventure is only days away – Wednesday night I’m leaving for Ohio, New York, and New Jersey – Show number 110, 111, and 112 on the runway, ready to take off! I can't miss this flight - I'm Driving!!!
WOW - What a trip - In the span of 43 hours just about every emotion you can imagine crossed my path. Grap your favorite drink, kick back, and get ready for the ride of my life!
To give you some background, I really hadn't plan on going to this show. But, on the day the tickets went on sale, my sweetheart of a friend, LouAnn, calls me at work and asks how I did on the sale for tickets. I informed her I wasn't planning on going. Well, she saids "I have an extra front row ticket - Can I change your mind?" Well, enough said - I'm going to Tulsa!! Little did I know what would happen that day.....
I should have gotten a hint of things to come when I got an email from LouAnn telling me they had cancelled her flight and rebooked her. So, instead of her coming in 1 hour before me, she was now coming in 1/2 hour after me. No problem....so I thought.
Went to bed early the night before, had a little trouble falling asleep. Decided it wasn't worth it trying to sleep, so I would just get up and head out for Washington, DC - National Airport - to make my flight. Just then, I fell asleep. The alarm went off at 3:00 a.m. (Had a 7:00 a.m. flight and a 2 hour drive to D.C.) Turned the alarm OFF in my sleep!! Never heard it!! Woke up at 5:18 a.m. OH NO!!!!!! With a 2 hour drive, there's no way to make it!! Grabbed the cell phone and called LouAnn and gave her the bad news. I grabbed my clothes and headed out the door.
Halfway to D.C., the phone rings. LouAnn had just found out her rebooked flight had been cancelled, her original flight reinstated, but the airline had cancelled her reservation. So the airline was trying to find her another flight - and I've missed my flight, so this is not looking good.
About 30 miles from D.C., I hit the rush hour traffic going into D.C. and 4 lanes of traffic just stopped! So, I made the decision to dump off in Springfield, Va and catch the Metro train to National Airport. Of course, my Metro card didn't have enough credit to ride the train, and the stupid machines you use to add money wasn't taking credit cards! So, here I am, missing my flight, trying to catch the train, and digging for money.
I finally get enough on the card to ride the train. Got to National but went to the wrong terminal. So I had to take a bus to Terminal A (I was in Terminal C). Finally made the ticket counter about 7:40 a.m. Explained my situation and then the fun began. Almost every flight was sold-out and I could only go on standby. The rep suggested I contact the reservation center and maybe I could get credit with another airline. So, I did as I was told, and the reservation center started throwing all kinds of flights and times at me - finally they named a flight that would get me in before the show - GREAT - book that one. Then, the rep calming said "OK - Got you confirmed - that will be $1,200.00 - do you want to pay by credit card?" Well, after I picked up the phone from the ground (and myself too!) I explained there was no way I could or would pay that kind of money for a ticket. So, she suggested I go back to the counter and go on standby. I went back to the ticket counter and stood in line again. One by one, my case was being handed off to another employee and very soon all 4 reps were helping people who were in line behind me. I started to complain, but just then, another couple who had missed their flight, began yelling and screaming and causing a scene. I decided to just stay quite and wait until someone got around to helping me.
Eventually, the NWA Supervisor came over to help me. The news was not good. They could get me on a flight that left at 5:15 p.m. and arrived in Tulsa 8:50 p.m. I couldn’t help it, but tears started running down my cheeks. I explained I was attending a show that started at 8:00 p.m. I had GREAT seats and people waiting on me at the hotel. I told him about the 12:10 flight and that reservations said I should get on the standby list. So, he clicked around in the computer for about 10 minutes, and I wondered why it was taking so long to get standby. Finally, he looked up and said, “OK, I have you confirmed on the 12:10 flight” WHAT???? Decided again to keep my mouth shut. Then, he looked at me and said, “Do you know how much money I just saved you? $1200.00!!! My knees went weak…but he handed me a ticket and directed me to the gate!! I find out that because my original flight was routed through Memphis and the only flight they could find was through Minneapolis, that is what caused the $1200.00 fee. By then, LouAnn had called from Minneapolis and she was being routed through Denver. So between the two of us, we covered about 2/3 of the U.S. trying to get to Tulsa.
The flight from D.C. to Minneapolis was interesting; this very nice but clinging older gentleman started talking to me and followed me around the airport like a lost puppy dog. I had to keep waking him up so he wouldn’t miss the flight. I finally got into Minneapolis – LouAnn had already left for Denver. The plane was a little late getting in and I just made my flight to Tulsa. We got into Tulsa 30 minutes early, which was great because I could catch the shuttle that came at 5:00. No such luck. We sat out on the runway for 30 minutes because there was another plane at our gate. We finally got off the plane at 5:15 p.m. I ran to baggage claim and called the hotel. God bless them, they were waiting for me!!! I had gone 7 hours without a cigarette and now I had to wait 15 minutes more.
Downtown Tulsa was a driving nightmare. Some the streets were closed due to construction and many more were closed due to Mayfest – a city street festival. But we finally made it to the hotel and I literally ran into the hotel room straight for the shower. Within an hour, I was ready to go…. a new Styx Road Trip record. LouAnn and I met up with JenRN and Debbie and then it was off to the show we go!
The Brady Theater is rather old and not quite as nice as the website shows, but we were thrill when we got in and found our seats only 2 feet from the stage and the stage hit us about mid-tummy! We ran into several Styx Lounge members and it was good to finally put faces with names. We talked to some people on the cell phones and they were watching us from the Styx Crew web-cam. Pretty soon, the intro music came on and there came da boyz!!!! I completely forgot about all the trouble getting there! From the moment the lights went down, everyone in the Brady Theater got to their feet and I didn’t see a soul sit down the entire show. The boyz caught the audience vibe, and they were on fire!!!
Here is the set list for Friday night at Tulsa:
Blue Collar Man
Grand Illusion Lorelei
One With Everything
Lady
Too Much Time On My Hands
Snowblind
Walrus
Medley
Just Be (New Song)
Crystal Ball
Fooling Yourself
Miss America
Come Sail Away
Doctor
Renegade
Tommy couldn’t remember how many songs were in the medley. Then we found out why. Styx has changed up the Medley again and they have removed several songs. It appears that the songs that had been cut were Dennis’ songs – I asked someone about it but really didn’t get an answer.
There was one moment in the show where Tommy introduced the new song “Just Be” He began talking about how caught up we are in our busy lives and how computers and ipods and Tivo has taken over and no one has the time to “Just Be” themselves and do simple things like taking walks and fishing. Then suddenly, he explained how his father took him fishing when we was younger and Tommy said he would give up all his computers, Tivo and everything just to go fishing with his father one more time! That statement hit me like a ton of bricks. I used to fish with my parents ever since I was born. My dad passed away 13 years ago and I had never even thought about the fact that we could never go fishing together again. And the tears started – I couldn’t help it. Lawrence saw me and asked if I was OK? No, I shook my head and the tears really fell. I mouthed I couldn’t fish with my father either and it really looked like it touched his heart!! They were going to debut this song in Cleveland, but they couldn’t wait. JenRN was lucky enough to get the words off the stage and was nice enough to share them with me!
“Just Be”Did you make your bed?
Did you lose your head?
Are you still awake
From the things we said…
You close your eyes
But the sleep won’t come
‘Cause you can’t escape
What’s said and done
Did you draw the line
In the sand again
Did you make a stand
Out on a limb
Don’t be so hard on yourself…….

You drink too much
‘Cause you think too much
It seems so hard to feel
All this is real
You numb your heart
So you feel no pain’
Then you miss the bliss
of the pouring rain.
But there’s a brand new day
It’s a shame to waste
It’s yours to live
It’s yours to taste......
It’s a beautiful song, and I could just hear the CYO Orchestra performing with Styx on that song. I can’t wait for the Blossom show on May 25th, 2006
The funniest part of the evening was that Ricky spent half the concert trying to get a pick to me that I could actually catch!! He tried throwing one, tossing me, kicking a few off his heel but I could never actually caught one. He finally motioned for everyone around me to be still. He pointed at me - showed me the pick – adjusted – and kicked a perfect hit off his heel – and I MISSED IT!!! He was done!! I tried to tell him I had a blind spot in my eye and I wear glasses to see anything up close. Finally at some point in the evening, he walked over, grabbed my hand and put a pick in it and closed my fingers up. Guess he figured that was the only way I could “catch” one!! During “Come Sail Away” Tommy came over by me and handed the girl beside me a pick to play his guitar – She didn't know what to do with it! Then, Tommy handed me a pick, and said “Show them how it’s done!” NO PROBLEM – In a few seconds everyone had it down and we were strumming Tommy’s guitar. Can’t believe the strings didn’t break!! Here is a picture from Styx Crew Cam of me playing Tommy's guitar - it's hard to see but it's ME!

Well, like all great Styx shows, before we knew it, they were playing Renegade. I got a Ricky and Tommy pick and Ricky’s set list, LouAnn got Tommy’s slide, and JenRN got the words to “Just Be”. We hung around the buses for a while and talked to the crew. Eventually, Lawrence, Todd, and Ricky came out for a few moments. I even got a hug from Lawrence!! Finally, hunger took over, so we asked directions to get to some eating-places. Well, the directions were bad, we couldn’t find the highway, and so we doubled back and found ourselves following the band bus. OK – they can lead us to the interstate. Well, we kept taking wrong turns and so did they. First, we were behind them, then in front of them, then passing each other in the opposite direction – it got really funny. We never found the place we were looking for but spied a Denny’s and ordered half the menu. I left all my money in the hotel room trying to hurry and get ready. So I offered to buy breakfast the next morning anyone willing to pay my bill. Thank goodness for friends. The waiter at Denny’s wanted to come along and join us! We actually did manage to find our way back to the hotel and everyone crashed around 3-4 a.m.
Next morning I woke up early and so everyone was still asleep, I walked around the city a little bit and then I remembered tickets were going on sale that day at 10:00 for York, Pa. show. I hurried back to the hotel and found the business center. Just as I was going on the Internet, my cell phone rings. I thought it was my roommate – but it was my friend Pattie wanting to know what ticket I got for York. Well, nothing yet, the tickets haven’t gone on sale. She started laughing – I completely forgot I was in the central time zone, so 9:45 was actually 10:45 eastern time and I had missed the beginning of the sale. But, thank goodness for friends who watch your back, she had a ticket for me on the Lawrence’s side. So all’s well! Finally all 4 of us went downstairs and had breakfast – we were having a great time talking and catching up, when I happened to look at my watch – it was 11:55 and checkout was at 12 noon. LouAnn’s flight was at 2:20 and my flight at 4:27. We had to scurry and get to the airport but everyone made their flight and got home safely. Here’s to number 109 Styx Road adventure for the record books and the memory books.
Well, next adventure is only days away – Wednesday night I’m leaving for Ohio, New York, and New Jersey – Show number 110, 111, and 112 on the runway, ready to take off! I can't miss this flight - I'm Driving!!!










